Mastering Life’s Classroom: 6 Unforgettable Lessons from 2023!

As we wrap up another year, I wanted to share a few nuggets of wisdom that 2023 graciously bestowed upon me. Life’s the best teacher, isn’t it? 🌈 Here are some lessons that hit me:

Abdulhussain Jarif
3 min readDec 11, 2023

1. Prioritize Mental Health: It’s high time we treat our mental health as we do our physical health. Just like a neglected physical ailment can worsen, so can our mental well-being. Take a breather, practice self-care, and seek support when needed. Mental health matters, and it’s okay not to be okay.

An vibrant image of a tree surrounding with colorful flowers depicting self love.

2. Actions Speak Louder: “Actions speak louder than words” may sound cliché, but it’s a timeless truth. Your efforts define you more than your words ever will. Channel your energy into endeavors that bring you joy and make a positive impact. Let your actions do the talking.

An Image depicting that Actions speaks louder than words.

3. A friend to all is a friend to none: In the game of friendships, quality beats quantity. Not everyone is meant to be your confidant, and that’s perfectly fine. Cherish those who stand by you in thick and thin, and invest your time and energy where it matters.

A figure stands at a crossroads, surrounded by diverse paths leading to different groups of people.

4. Accept Some People Are Just… Well, You Know: Some folks might be less than pleasant to you but angels to others. It’s a mystery we don’t have to solve. It’s not your job to figure out why. Make your peace with it, focus on the positive, and surround yourself with those who uplift you.

A picture depicting “Some folks might be evil to you but angels to others”.

5. Enjoy Your Own Company: The sooner you get comfortable with your own company, the smoother adulting becomes. Solo adventures, self-reflection, and embracing solitude are not signs of loneliness but rather the foundation of self-discovery and personal growth.

Image representing the theme ‘Enjoy Your Own Company’.

6. You Can’t Travel in Two Boats: Life often presents us with choices. Trying to ride two boats simultaneously often leads to chaos. Whether it’s career paths, relationships, or personal goals, committing to one direction ensures focus and progress. Sometimes, you need to choose one boat and sail confidently towards your destination.

Riding two boats in a sea of possibilities, illustrating the chaos and challenge of balancing between diverging paths and the importance of making decisive choices in life.

Let’s carry these lessons into the next year, creating a foundation for growth, resilience, and joy. Here’s to the lessons learned, the challenges faced, and the triumphs celebrated! 🚀💪

🎨 Note: All images in this post were generated using DALL-E, DM me if want the prompts!

👍 Upvote if you resonate with these points and share with your friends for a dose of inspiration! 🌟

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Abdulhussain Jarif
Abdulhussain Jarif

Written by Abdulhussain Jarif

A Self Learner, Tech Nerd, Product Designer, Avid Reader, Curious Mind, Newbie Writer xD

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